You Can Be a Good Friend (No Matter What!): A Lil TJ Book

PreS-Gr 3–Lil TJ is about to start school and just knows she’s going to make millions of friends. She says as much to her grandma, who tells TJ that friendships need to be nurtured if they’re going to grow. With that in mind, TJ prepares for school, having done her hair and donned her best outfit. At first, she’s excited to answer the teacher’s questions and play music, but the day soon turns sour when she encounters a bully named Beau who is mean to her at every turn. Beau does not let her enjoy drawing or her favorite lunch. Lil TJ tries to change herself to avoid attracting Beau’s attention, but he keeps making her feel small. She goes to her grandma for advice, and her grandma advises TJ to be her sweet self and to be kind. By being herself, regardless of what Beau says, Lil TJ finds friendship and learns a lesson in kindness. This picture book is an excellent tool for adults and parents to help facilitate conversations surrounding bullying and fitting in. The author’s note provides tips for parents who suspect their child is being bullied. Lil TJ’s journey is a thoughtful and well-paced portrayal of staying true to oneself regardless of what anyone says. The eye-catching illustrations feature dynamic characters of various skin tones.