Loose Threads. A Story About Me, Mom, and Dad

K-Gr 4–Death is a difficult subject for adults as well as children, but in this poignant story, Ludin gives parents the opportunity to discuss the death of a beloved family member. Included is a letter to parents, providing guidance on how to read the story. The ­suggestions include allowing adequate time for questions and discussion, and some sample questions follow the story. The first few pages show the “joy, delicious meals, and warm hugs” that surround the girl. Her mother is a talented crafter, bringing to life stuffed animal creations that the girl imagines. And then, “Mom gets sick,” and the joy and color drain from the girl’s life, just as they do from the illustrations. Even though the girl hopes and prays, her mother dies. The girl is completely adrift. She ­worries about disturbing her busy father, blames herself, and rails against the injustices of her life. Her father gathers himself and tells her that they must share their grief to heal. ­Further, they must construct a new life while continuing to celebrate her mother. By the end, the girl knows that her life is “not perfect,” but that her mother’s love will always be “woven” into her life. The illustrations beautifully capture the shifting moods and cleverly reinforce the overarching metaphor that a good life is composed of many threads woven—or rewoven—with effort and love.